When thinking about how to be irresistible to men, do you find yourself texting him more than he’s texting you? Are you always the one initiating contact? Do you just want to see him fight a little bit more for your affection? Do you want him to want to spend time with you and show you love? You’re not the only one. I’m hoping with the tips you get from this article you can learn how to regain control in your relationship and get him to chase you like the desirable woman that you are.
Generally speaking, men want a woman to stroke his, um, ego. They have a strong competitive side, and their primal instincts give them a subliminal desire to win when competing with other men. This drive to win can be applied to your love.
First, ensure that your man enjoys the chase before you use this method. Look for signs of competitiveness in his life at work, the gym, or with other friends. Once you are positive that he has a big ego, it’s time to use it to your advantage.
How to Be Irresistible to Men: The Start
You have a guy in mind. You have compatible life goals, you make each other laugh, and the chemistry is undeniable. Be careful with your choice, because this is one of the most important decisions you can make for the rest of your life. You need to know that the relationship has long-term potential. That being said, now it’s time to get your man and gain his undevoted attention.
You need to start by creating the chase. Ideally, this means holding off for a couple dates before taking it to the bedroom, but you can still create the chase even after you’ve slept together. Flirt playfully, but avoid any desperation in your voice or your language. Stand and speak with confidence, smile, keep things light, and challenge your man a little bit. You can literally challenge him with games, working out, cooking skills, or a variety of other things. The point is to spark the desire to win in his brain when he’s with you. While you want to make it a challenge, do your best to maintain his ego (even if you win).
Remember that the most important thing about activating your man’s competitive side is giving him a goal. You should be the goal. Desperate language and behavior make a man lose interest because there is no longer any game. Make it very clear that you’re interested, but don’t make yourself too available. You are a busy woman with her own life after all. You don’t need to respond to every text immediately but definitely respond in a timely and positive manner. You also don’t have to be available for every single date, but you want to make sure he still understands that you’re interested. Always suggest a date for the next day. Rather than pretending to be busy while you’re actually at home with your cat watching a movie, actually, keep yourself busy. Go out with girlfriends and throw yourself into your work. You can always keep him a part of it by sharing funny stories from your adventures. And he’ll always appreciate a cute picture (sexy but not skanky). Finally, when you are together, keep the game fun. Who wants to play a game that they don’t enjoy?
Make Him the Winner
You are a prize, and he is the winner. One mistake that many women make is that they think that try to make their man jealous of other men. Yes, you want to subconsciously make him feel like he’s competing with other men for you, but that doesn’t mean that you should make him feel like he’s one of the several men in your life. If he thinks that there are other men, he won’t feel special. He also may look at you differently. Keep the game alive and keep it fun, but let him know that he’s the only one that you’re playing with… as long as things keep going well.
Playing the Hero
Every man wants to be the hero. He wants to be needed. This does not mean that you allow yourself to be completely dependent on him. You don’t want to actually need him, but you want to make him feel like you need him. Once he has this in his head, he will make it a priority to fulfill this role. His masculinity will depend on it.
To make him the hero, you can open yourself up a little bit at this point. Express some vulnerability, but do not make it too soon. Also, give him the opportunity to be the hero by expressing your needs at strategic times. Let him take care of you a bit when you’re sick or when you’re having a bad day. Don’t do this until after he’s got it in his head that he wants to be your hero. Do not overwhelm him with responsibilities either. Your goal is to make him feel masculine and strong, not vent your every negative thought and frustration on him. After he’s won you and demonstrated his role, you have a relationship.
How to be Irresistible to a Man: Theory into Action
Now, the only thing to do is figure out exactly how to be irresistible to men by using these tips. If this method doesn’t apply to your relationship, there are also plenty of other ways to bring out the hero mentality in your man. Check out this lifechanging romance system today!
You deserve a fantastic man, and you can get him. If you are attracted to a man who does not treat you properly, remember that you might want to put your energy toward a man that does serve your time and warmth. If a man does something that does not deserve your forgiveness, use your new tools to put you in a healthy relationship with a man who will be a hero instead of a zero. You make the choice of who you spend your time with, choose somebody who is worth it.